What clients say

For 46 years I have struggled with the effects of domestic violence. It left deep emotional scars that I never thought could truly heal.

Since working with Lysander and starting EMDR therapy, my life has completely changed. The way he guides the sessions is nothing short of magic. He’s incredibly understanding, gentle, and patient, creating a space where I finally felt safe to face memories that used to control me.

The results have been unbelievable my mind feels calmer, clearer, and lighter. Things that once triggered anxiety or sadness no longer have that same power over me. For the first time, I feel like I’ve reclaimed a part of myself that was lost.

I can’t thank Lysander enough for the compassion and skill he’s shown. If anyone is struggling with trauma or painful memories, I wholeheartedly recommend EMDR therapy with him. It’s truly life changing.

I find myself overwhelmed with gratitude as I reflect on the therapeutic journey I embarked on with Lysander. At that time, I was experiencing the horrors of PTSD and depression, stemming from post-abortion struggles and the painful breakup of an emotionally abusive relationship.

Lysander, with his expertise in EMDR and therapeutic conversation, truly emerged as a guiding light in my darkest moments. He created a safe and nurturing space, allowing me to navigate the complex challenges I faced.

When I began therapy, I saw absolutely no light at the end of the tunnel. However, the progression I witnessed throughout our sessions was nothing short of remarkable. Today, I can truly say I have found happiness and contentment. Lysander’s dedication extends beyond traditional therapy — he is a true life-changer.

I came to Lysander seeking help for depression, panic attacks, deep self-doubt, and overwhelming emotions. From the very first session, I felt comfortable opening up and talking about what was going on in my life.

What I appreciated most was that the therapy never felt like a standard, textbook approach. Lysander adapted the sessions to what emerged during the process, making the treatment feel genuinely personal. Because of that, things started to improve quite quickly.

As the therapy progressed, we got closer to the core of my difficulties. This often led to valuable insights and sometimes even breakthroughs that would leave me feeling significantly better for weeks.

Of course, there were ups and downs, but overall there was a clear upward trend. After nine months, I no longer experienced panic attacks or depressive symptoms. My emotions also became much more manageable.

I do not expect that difficulties will never return, but I gained insights that I will carry with me for the rest of my life and that will help me deal with future challenges in a healthier way.

Thank you again, Lysander.

Lysander was the first therapist who truly helped me — I honestly believe his support during my depression saved my life.

What set him apart was his ability to meet me exactly where I was. On difficult days, we focused on calming techniques instead of pushing forward — which gave me the confidence to manage my emotions on my own. When I was ready, we returned to deeper work. His goal was never to create dependency, but to empower me to heal independently and sustainably.

With his broad expertise and range of methods, Lysander tailored each session to what I needed most. His approach was fast, flexible, and deeply personal.

Beyond his professionalism, he brought a human warmth that reminded me I wasn’t alone. He even went the extra mile — consulting with other professionals when needed — to ensure I got the best care possible.

Lysander works holistically, compassionately, and always puts your wellbeing first.

I worked with Lysander for five sessions, and I can honestly say that each session felt like a breakthrough. We worked on releasing old trauma and emotional patterns, and after every session I felt lighter, clearer, and more connected to myself. I could feel that something deep was shifting within me. Soon after completing the process, I experienced several powerful insights and important positive changes in my life. I made decisions I had been postponing for a long time, moved through blocks that had been holding me back, and let go of unhealthy habits and patterns that no longer served me. The impact of this work extended far beyond the sessions themselves. It created real and lasting change, and I am deeply grateful for the experience. I highly recommend Lysander to anyone who is ready for deep healing, meaningful breakthroughs, and genuine transformation.

Lysander created a space where I felt truly safe to be myself — something I had long missed within my own mind

I started working with Lysander during a period when I was overwhelmed by negative thoughts, including suicidal ideation. I felt lost, without direction, and struggled with a deeply negative self-image.

Through EMDR, I was able to process traumatic memories that had been weighing me down. Schema therapy helped me make sense of my inner world, and sometimes simply having a space to express my emotions was a crucial part of finding my path again.

Since starting therapy, I feel noticeably lighter and more optimistic. The negative thoughts no longer dominate my mind, and I now experience a strong sense of vitality aligned with my personal values.

Lysander, I experienced you as highly competent, warm, and open.

You created a space where I felt truly safe to be myself — something I had long missed within my own mind. Your willingness to be authentic and vulnerable made it easier for me to open up. That made all the difference.

He often picked up on things I hadn’t yet put into words myself"

I’m deeply grateful for the support and guidance I received from Lysander. Over the course of five months, he helped me work through a trauma that had weighed heavily on me for years, using EMDR and personal sessions tailored to my needs. I had never expected therapy to bring such noticeable change, but the relief I experienced felt like a weight was finally lifted.

From our very first conversation, I felt at ease. Lysander created a safe and judgment-free space, which made it possible for me to speak openly about painful experiences I had kept buried. What truly stood out was his ability to listen — not just with patience and empathy, but with full presence. He often picked up on things I hadn’t yet put into words myself.

The EMDR sessions were particularly impactful. I felt grounded and supported enough to confront difficult memories, and after each session, I noticed a growing sense of calm and clarity. Lysander had an intuitive sense for when to speak, when to wait, and how to guide me toward insight without ever pushing.

What I appreciated most is that I always felt taken seriously — not as a case, but as a human being. Lysander’s compassion, thoughtfulness, and skill made a lasting difference in my healing journey.

If you’re looking for someone who combines deep expertise with genuine care, I wholeheartedly recommend Lysander.

I worked with Lysander for several months to process difficult experiences from my past that were affecting my daily life, work, and relationships. From the beginning, I was struck by the knowledge, passion, and care he brings to his work.

What stood out most was the balance he strikes between flexibility and decisiveness. Rather than following a formula, he stays attuned to what is happening in the moment and adapts his approach accordingly, while still providing clear guidance throughout the process.

I noticed meaningful changes surprisingly quickly. I began breaking patterns of avoidance that I had struggled with for years, having difficult conversations I had long postponed, and setting boundaries with greater ease. New hope started to emerge where fear had previously held me back.

People in my life began telling me that something about me had changed. That I seemed more mature, confident, and grounded.

I trust Lysander's professionalism as much as the very human heart he brings to every session. I would wholeheartedly recommend him to friends and loved ones.

I worked with Lysander during one of the more challenging periods of my life, and his EMDR therapy had a profound impact on me.

One of the things he helped me do was break out of traumatic loops by guiding me to see the “next frame” beyond the painful memory. Instead of being stuck in the fear and emotion of the past, I was able to process it and recognise that life continued, that I survived, and that I was stronger than I realised.

Through our work together, I gained important insights into my childhood experiences and the patterns they had created in my adult life. More importantly, Lysander helped me approach those experiences without fear and reconnect with a sense of strength and resilience that had always been there.

His calm presence, skill, and ability to guide difficult conversations made a real difference to my recovery and personal growth. I’m genuinely grateful for the work we did together and would highly recommend him to anyone considering EMDR or trauma-focused therapy.

Working with Lysander was an incredible and powerful journey. He really listened to exactly what I needed to work on in every session. He gave honest and thoughtfully nuanced feedback and was able to create EMDR sessions that were tailored so accurately, each time. Lysander is compassionate, calm, understanding, patient, and non-judgemental. He also has a great sense of humour—which was definitely needed at times! The process was highly effective for me, and my life has shifted in meaningful ways since. I highly recommend him. Thank you once again.

I can't emphasise enough how positive and transformative my experience with Lysander has been. Seeking therapy was a significant step for me, and I couldn't have asked for a better psychologist to guide me through this journey.

Lysander combines professionalism, empathy, and expertise in a unique way. He created a safe, non-judgmental environment where I felt genuinely heard and understood. His ability to listen attentively and ask insightful questions helped me gain valuable understanding of my thoughts, behaviours, and their origins.

What stood out most was his personalised and holistic approach. Sessions were adapted to my needs, providing practical tools, meaningful insights, and lasting support throughout the process.

The work we did together has been instrumental in my personal growth and mental well-being. While my journey continues, I feel stronger, more resilient, and more empowered than ever before.

Thank you, Lysander, for being such a valuable part of my healing process.

7 months have passed since I first met Lysander. The first day we met we immediately started talking and I opened up about my problems, which is very unusual as I am a very closed person and have had a bad experience with psychologists in the past. But despite me being so broken, he was still interested in helping me, at which point I was in a really bad place and told him that I couldn't do anything in life and wanted to die.

Two months later, I have come to the place where I can do lots of things, finally like myself, stop living in the past, starting to think in solutions, thinking about my future and working towards my goals and starting to see my stake in it and dropping the victim role.

There is one thing that still surprises me with Lysander that I have not experienced with any other psychologist and that is that as soon as there is any feeling or sore memory, that he notices it before I have even noticed it myself. And I cannot even say everything that needs to be said about how warm, wonderful and good a psychologist he is.

So if you need a good psychologist then he is the best in the country. Do not hesitate to contact him and make an appointment with him. If he can help me, he can help you, you deserve his help, you're great."